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  • Goals? It’s Easy If You Do It Smart

    I should have started discussed how to make goals before for the year or in general before taking about habits. That’s okay. We live and we learn from our mistakes. 

    What are goals?

    Goals are defined as an idea of the future or desired result of a person. For groups, goals are defined as am envision, plan and commit to achieve. I will be taking about goals for individual people. 


    Setting  goals are important  for many different reasons:

        1. Keeps you focused and provides direction
        2. Gives you a sense of self-mastery or satisfaction
        3. Helps maintain motivation
        4. Helps you prioritize change
        5. Can set off new behaviors

    Types of Goals

    The types of goals will be broken into two groups :

      1. Time-Based
        • Short-term goals: goals you want to accomplish immediate or the near future. That could a couple weeks, a month, six months or even a year. For example, a weekly goal of mine is to cook one meal. 
        • Long-term goals: Requires more planning, effort, and time to achieve than a short-term goal. For example, one of my long term-goals is to obtain my doctorate in Clinical child/family psychology. 
        • Lifetime goals: Any idea, dream, vision or purpose you have for yourself to achieve in your lifetime. For example, I want to travel to see some of the wonders of the world such as the pyramids, Great Wall of China, Taj Mahal, Petra, etc.
      2. Life-Based: These can also be considered as stepping stones.
        • Career goals: professional ideas or visions that you want to achieve in your chosen career. For example, you want to get a promotion to a higher job or start your own business. 
        • Personal/Personal development goals: Ways to improve yourself and become the best person you can be. A couple of personal goals are to write a book and to read more books. 
        • Financial goals: Plan to help you manage your finances and control how you spend. You could create a monthly spending plan, save for retirement, pay off loans, etc. 
        • Spiritual goals: An intention to aim  on how to become closer to God. My goal: I want to work on daily devotionals, prayer, reading the Word. 
        • Health goals: Maintaining health and being fit (physically and mentally) Examples of adding more fruits and  vegetables to lunch and dinner. Drink more water a day. Exercise three times a week. 
        • Relationship goals: A few examples could be spending more time with family, self-care, get married, have children and etc. 

    A lot of the types of  goals can overlap with each other. 

    What Can You Do to Maintain Goals?

      1. You can achieve your goals using the acronym SMART. SMART stand for specific, measureable, attainable, relevant, and time-based. 

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    S: Specific. Be clear on the goal when you write it. Here are some questions you can ask yourself?

      1. What do I want to accomplish?
      2. Why is this goal important?
      3. Who is involved?
      4. What resources or lack of resources are involved?

    M: Measureable. Tracking your progress and knowing what you accomplished.

      1. How much?
      2. How many?

    A: Attainable. Making your goal realistic and achievable. Something that is not over the top but still challenging. You have what you need to reach the goal.

    R: Relevant. To make sure that the goal matters to you, worth the time, your effort, and aligns with other goals you have. 

    T: Time-based. What is your ideal date for you to accomplish the goal. What is the deadline you want to focus toward?

    Encouragement

    Remember that your goals aren’t going to perfect and you can always mend your goals as you along. Just go with the process, take your time, and you will be able to accomplish what you set out to do. Hopefully, I helped you set some goals and some insight on how to make goals.

    References

    7 Types of Goals: The Ultimate Guide to Goal Categories. Develop Good Habits. (2020, October 28). https://www.developgoodhabits.com/types-of-goals/.

    Healthie. (2020, February 13). 9 Benefits to Goal Setting for Client Success: Healthie Blog. Health Resources and Tips for Wellness Professionals | Healthie Blog. https://blog.gethealthie.com/2019/07/11/9-benefits-to-goal-setting-for-client-success/.

    Ho, L. (2020, November 26). 9 Types of Goals to Get Your Life Moving in the Right Direction. Lifehack. https://www.lifehack.org/864425/types-of-goals.

    Ho, L. (2021, January 17). What are Goals? Achieve More By Changing Your Perspectives. Lifehack. https://www.lifehack.org/863723/what-are-goals.

    Mind Tools Content Team . SMART Goals: – How to Make Your Goals Achievable. Time Management Training From MindTools.com. https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/smart-goals.htm.

    Personal Success. (2019, December 3). Importance of Goal Setting: 6 Reasons to Take Setting Goals Seriously. Brian Tracy’s Self Improvement & Professional Development Blog. https://www.briantracy.com/blog/personal-success/importance-of-goal-setting/.

    Pullein, C. (2020, November 27). What Are SMART Goals (and How to Use Them to Be Successful). Lifehack. https://www.lifehack.org/759949/how-to-use-smart-goal.

    Riopel, L. (2020, November 12). The Importance, Benefits, and Value of Goal Setting. PositivePsychology.com. https://positivepsychology.com/benefits-goal-setting/#:~:text=Setting%20goals%20helps%20trigger%20new,you%20don’t%20properly%20manage.

  • New Year, New Goals

    HAPPY NEW YEAR!

    I am blessed to know that we made it through 2020! And, now let’s take a big sigh of relief.

    I am happy to know I made it through the year COVID-free. I made out with my health and in my right mind. Jesus gave life to my body to see a new year, meaning I still have purpose here on earth.

    As you may know, many people made new year’s resolutions. And I know it can be hard to maintain those goals I set for ourselves. Sometimes our resolutions can be too-complex, not realistic, loss of motivation, poor planning, no support, etc.

    I am one of many people who make goals and do not follow through on what I set out to do.

    This year is going to be different for me.

    Don’t know why, but I am determined.

    What are my goals for this year?

        1.  Being consistent
        2. Daily Devotion and Prayer
        3. Balancing work and fun
        4. Write at least two books
        5. Cooking more instead of eating out

    These aren’t in any particular order. Notice how I don’t have any deadlines or requirements telling myself to meet this goal by this date. Sometimes adding a deadline adds more anxiety, especially if I am not used to maintaining realistic goals. I say this because I procrastinate and push things to the last minute. Depending on the goal, a deadline can be good when you want to keep yourself driven and motivated. You can make short-term and long-term goals for yourself as long as you make them manageable and reachable. 

    For example, my goal is to include more healthy food in my diet.

    Short-term goal: Prepare one to two budget-friendly meals for two weeks (meal planning).

    After two weeks, I will reward myself with a treat (dessert).

    Long-term goal: Cook five meals for the week.

    This is manageable. Some of my goals I want to become a healthy habit for me. Like being consistent. Keeping myself accountable and motivated to know what to prioritize. I will talk habits more on Sunday.

    Encouragement

    When you make these goals, remind yourself to celebrate small victories and achievements. If you get off-track, that’s okay. Take a deep breath, pick yourself up, and continue on. Remember, you aren’t perfect. I have a hard remember that too.

    Tweak your goals throughout the year, depending on how the year goes.

    What new habits or goals do you have for this year?

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